Ability To Distinct Betwen The Person You Want To See Or You See, To The Actual Person He/She Is: Florentina Masawe and Bernadin Marselian Masawe In This Case.

My greatest lesson today is that many times you can try to help and keep your family close and show care, but instead you get cursed for it, like your the scum of the earth. Many know how humble and generous we, Valerian Family, are! Never have we disrespected, used or cursed out anyone who means well. But the very first person that we are cursed out, betrayed, fought and invaded by in our life is our own blood relatives, Auntie Florentina Masawe and Bernadin Masawe. It is when you know this world can only be saved by God Jehovah.

It is sometimes, we see people as we want them to be and we tend to forget that they could be not themselves as we see them or want them to be. May be they have turned into the accessories of the very enemy that wants you down and destroyed. We cannot see that by using the naked eye. Unless you start to connect the dots and the pattern of their behaviors. How many in the inter-dependent culture have such high psychological abilities? That is the key question, the interdependency impairs the ability for some to do the required analysis and evaluation of the behavior and patten of actions and or words of some whom is depending upon and draw conclusion of such person to be  bad or good to him. 

However, once you have noticed this to someone, what you need to do is to be distant as first step. Second step is to forgiving such person and move because it is the right thing to do and it will make you free and establish such distance that is so critical. Also, forgiving him/her will help you not to let such enemy person to hold you down or take you hostage to the path of his/her own self destruction. The self destruction here are things like hate, jealousy, vengeance, vindictiveness and revenge. 

Then you need to move forward with your Lord God and about your business with other family members and or friend. Dont feel sorry or pity for them because we all have choices to make in life and we live with the aftermath of these very choices. you can feel empathetic and seek a distance help because you dont want to be close to this person, remember that very well. Interdependent here is what is causing all these problems from the  first place. it empowers the enemy and then  the enemy elevate him/herself to be and act like God. Auntie Florentina Masawe, is the vivid and classic example here. 

Also remember, once you Forgive him/her dont Forget what he/she did because to Forgive is not to Forget, and successful human being learn from their past mistakes. Don't get in the conundrum of doing the same thing over and over and somehow to expect different results. Benjamin Franklin said that is "Insanity". It is like going to plant coffee seeds and somehow expecting maize/corn to grow out as harvest. That too is insanity.

Always and always, remember that if the enemy cannot get you on the hook by yourself, he comes at you through those who are close to. For example, your wife, children, parents, siblings, close friends, and relatives, but most of the time is your mediate family member very close to you. Do you remember the story of Job in the Bible? Or Moses and Pharaoh? Or King David and his loyal solder? All these Biblical stories are to teach us something and we need to open our eyes. 

You cannot accept just about anything from anyone and expect you to do not have problems. You will have problems and many of them you will not know where their coming from. A worldly wisdom is not from like Godly wisdom and Godly wisdom dont come from worldly wisdom. Dont let the devil ride you using laws and glitches, remember that he was master magician, musician, bargain/lawyer in chief and he can scare you to make a pact with him and ultimately to steal the most precious thing inside you, YOUR SOUL AND GOD GIVEN TALENT OF FREE-WILL. Just be mindful and use your God given talents well as we all have Free-Will and God honor his words

We, Valerian Family, said over and over, this is not a joke and they, Florentina Masawe and Bernadin Masawe, mean not good. They need to keep out. But it looks like they want to do more harm than what they have already done. I said here a lot and facts are keeping on mounting and those who doubted Florentina Masawe and Bernadin are now in more Limbo of doubts and it is a dividing this very beautiful family throughout its ancestors. Only to and for what? Someone need to put stop to them. People need to start speaking out and voice their opinions. Today is Valerian Family, next day might be your very family. Dont let bad precedent be established here. We, Valerain Family, are happy to be left alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone and alone. How many times this need to be said to Florentina Masawe and Bernadin?????????????

May God bless you and please voice your opinion now and right away. We need culture change and change that can make your life and life of other better. We can do it and do it bravely. Dont be ashamed or worry of anything because only your can control yourself and actions. Do the right thing today and start to do it today. Thank you.