Many people in the world like to present the best of themselves competing with others. At the same time, people tend to bury their bad for the world not see. This is what i call the "Fallacy Of The People In The Society. Social media is catching up with it and exposing it for the world to see.
What eats you is within yourself and not from anyone else. Search within yourself, from soul, manners, characters, behaviors, acts and predispositions Searches, and you will find out most solutions to your on going problems.
The moment you move from self to others as way to solve your problem, the problem metastases into a now even bigger problem. "You hypocrite, first get the beam of timber out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the tiny particle out of your brother's eye." Matthew 7:5 AMP, The Holly Bible says.
It means that know your boundaries. And certainly know them well and put boundaries between yourself and others. These are the key factors toward Conflict Resolution and Conflict Management. They work in both Inter-conflicts or Intra-conflicts.
A featured CNN article "health: 'We are more than our profile pictures'" has capitalized on how bad it is to want show the good of yourself only and how it is good to both show good of yourself and bad of yourself. This is a psychological nutrients that boost self esteem and self advocacy toward solving personal and societal problems. It helps self and it empowers others in the society.
CCN further said that "Most people present their best selves on social media. But what about their whole selves?". Of which i totally agree with this analysis. Because this statement is further proof how we human can be hypocrite and as such cause so much unnecessary problems/chaos to ourselves and others.
Open-up! You will be free/content/positive and you will pass such positive aura to people around you, knowing that you strives to do "the right thing". We are all prone and striving to do the right thing as we welcome our good angels in our daily lives. For sure, no one is perfect. Stop pretending that you are perfect. You cannot be perfect. It's Biblical and human nature that we are not perfect. Thus, stop chasing the wind, utopia.
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