We can reflect on our lives and make good out of it, despite the horror we may consistently encounter. Why? Because the truth is, every family has unique members. Some are for common selflessness, examples, and others are for self-centered ulterior motives. Yet, we are one in our beings.
The unique, selfless ones sacrifice for the common good to break the generational curses that torment the family. Their oddness makes them superior and or the primary target. Their life journey is significantly complicated than others. They go through trials and tribulations that intend to break them to succumb to the critics/forces. Instead, they make the best out of such harsh circumstances.
Sadly, their families become their most significant obstacles, critics and teachers, because of daring to cross the bridge that many family members could not pass through successfully. Thus, sending mixed-feelings/emotions. Some fall flat entirely. Some stumble and fall, then get up, rebuild themselves even more substantial, and match forward. Life is a mission. It depends on what the mission is. They define the mission.
Therefore, if you are unique among the family members and daring to cross the bridge for the selflessness/common good, keep your head up. Never give up. Sunshine is on the horizon. Keep on working toward crossing the bridge. When you get there, simplify the bridge's obstacles because life has many bridges that one crosses. Also, welcome those who are willing to follow your foot-steps.
Last but not least, never expect recognition, respect, applaud, or commission/reparation. Your uniqueness is a gift. It is a call-of-duty vested/endowed upon you by the creator upon birth.
Life experience is an IV-League University. Harvest knowledge through living. Remember, there is no one knows everything in life. We live, learn, laugh, love, long, and grow. Go Figure!