Dec 21st 2013, Implementations Of The Long Overdue Boundaries That Safeguards The Valerian Family Rights

No one and or family, as first institution that stands as pioneer of the greatest organizations in the world, that don't have physical, psychological and spiritual boundaries. To Valerian Family, boundaries were well articulated and defined upon our Father, Valerian Sir. 3rd Day Family meeting, Matanga, after his funeral, followed by 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012 raised concerns and verbal with written documents that protects the presence of these boundaries. Unfortunately, none of these concerns with warnings worked. Something that led to the December 21st 2013 meeting that laid the groundwork of the new path of protecting and enforcing the existence of Valerian Family's rightful and lawful spiritual, physical and psychological boundaries.

The December 21st 2013 meeting is the beacon and bedrock of Valerian Family rights and boundaries. This meeting articulated a way that allows Valerian Family to move forward rightfully and lawfully without being intimidated to succumb to the continuing sabotages and invasions that it faces for generations. This meeting was the declaration of Valerian Family independence, so to speak.

Indeed, "THIS TIME IS DIFFERENT" and we have moved forward. It may be difficult with some tough and tumble situations ahead of us as nature provides such things, but God is great and cannot put its people in the situations that they cannot manage. God made us as individuals, yet unique, but united in his cause, and we all shall return to him as individuals and accounted for our individual uniqueness.

The December 21st 2013 Family Meeting helps the Valerian Family to implement the long overdue rights and boundaries issues, which help to safeguard the Valerian Family to stand free, rightfully and justly. Thus, Valerian Family has chose this path to serve the highest purpose of all, to live free from the captivity, and to ultimately serve God Jehovah.  Amen!


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The Legacy of Mwalimu Valerian B-K. Masao Sr.

In this saga, it is very easy for anyone to mislead and try to re-write history of our father Mwalimu Valerian a.k.a Cleff or Mchapiro or Kiwera, as many used to call him. You may have a distorted notion that the dead dont speak, but let me tell you something, "the dead do indeed speak and they speak through their legacy, off springs and living memories that are passed through generation to generation, regardless of what conditions are". If you want to bet otherwise, then you can be our best guest and tell us if you just came from the vacuum and happened to be on this mother earth by yourself. If you did not come from the vacuum then you came from somewhere and and someone (Parents and not cloned). The someone that are responsible for your being, are indeed existing in you and you are their prolongation. If Slavery, the utmost atrocities of human being the earth has seen that lasted for centuries, did not break and end the being of the African American, then no one can just try to wipe out the history of any free man who tracks his roots and still well connected to his offspring generations to come. Only a fool can think about how to tarnish such freeborn man.

Mwalimu Valerian lived his life fully and as natural born free man he had his share of good and bad, just as we all are. Not when he is forever long gone now, some few of his own now are trying to tarnish his legacy because of their personal gains. We, Valerian Family, urging you all out there to stop this saga and we are him and his prolongation, face it. Remember that he lived his life fully and he made the best out of it for himself, those who were around him and above all for his family. Who remember the hard times Tanzania went through during the Independence, Arusha Declaration, Uganda/Idi Amin war and the ordeal of socialism/communism? Everything, including human basic needs, was centralized and the strong arm of the might Mwalimu Nyerere Government was tightening everything from workers, farmers and business owners. Even sugar was rationed by number of family members and many basic things were considered luxurious. Do you people remember that era? We do and we experienced the magnificent of our father, Mwalimu Valerian and his survival skills to make the end meet for his family and relatives.

As we were children we saw our father working as Teacher/Mwalimu during the day and making merchandizes to sell during the nights and weekends. Some of you remember how he used to go by train From Moshi to Dar-Es-Salaam, hustling selling boiled maize/corn, home made envelops and paper glue, and other goods that he made by his own hands just to make a buck. Yet, we, children and him, used to pick up tars from the trees and make paper glue, parking them in the bottles and selling them, just to make a burk. Our parents sew our clothes by hand and knitting clothes for us for God's sake. whenever he went to Dar-Es-Salaam, which was every other weekend, he would come with bags of over 100kg of rice, peanuts, Corn/yellow maize/Yanga flour sugar and wheat for sale. Thanks to the centralized communism/socialism policies then.

Also, with all the hardship, he managed to give to his siblings" family whatever the small he had, as hand-out. Oh! how about the cars? Good Lord!!!!! Help us in this saga. We love this subject because to those who dont know a thing about them, like to speak as if someone is God and just brought the cars like food, "Mana From Heaven". If that is was so, can we see cars coming like "Mana From Heaven" again?

Here is the scenario to those who make noises and dont know a thing about the cars. Take an empty and full bucket, and bang them by stick or an object. Then observe which one makes more loud noises. The empty bucket will obviously make more and loud noises, and these are examples of the loud mouths talking junk about our father in relations to the cars. They have no fact but making noises like an empty buckets. Sadly, many ears hear noises and mostly coming from the empty bucket, then respond by follow where the noises are coming from and only can see buckets but can tell which is empty or full. Another sad story is that only very few try to shake the buckets and find out which one is empty and full. Now who are you? An empty bucket or a full bucket? Are you making some noises or not? Do you have the facts? You know the truth. 

We are not bragging but these are the facts. Like/take them or leave them. They are still remaining the facts and dont tell us that we are harsh. We did not take the worms out of the cans. Remember that very well. We are facing the world as it is. We have to learn how to navigate through it and survive in it. Yet, we have to make the best out of it and in the accordance of the Almighty God who sent us here, on the earth journey. Therefore, let's get along and travel through the mother earth by the rules set by God Jehovah who created all of us and with purpose in each and everyone of us here.

Whenever he came with these products, for years in our child hood, he would share with his siblings and their families (our uncles/aunts with our cousins). He spoke, treated and dealt with them all with dignity, respect and genuine love from his heart. He shared most of his wealthy, small or big, with his relatives, sadly sometimes he forgot about his own nuclear family. He paid for tuition and bribe the authorities for his nieces and nephews to either get education, a job or a deal that further prospered their lives. I understand that we human being have got very short memories, but facts of life follow us whenever we are, rooting from the decisions we make in our lives.

No one can ever say he had hatred and agenda toward them, and yes, he quarreled and sometimes had misunderstanding with some of his relatives, but he never fail to repair the relationships. He held no grudges or maltreated anyone. We all are human being and no one is perfect, remember that. We are not trying sanctify our father or ourselves, but we have reserved a lion share of mistreatment from the very relatives that are ought to protect us. No matter how common such malpractices and hatred we are encountering may be, they are wrong and painful feeling for any human to feel and experience. But one thing we know through, his life and now our life, we hold no grudges or hating on anyone or carry agenda on anyone. It is sad that we have experienced these things and actually physically be invaded by some of our relatives, who are trying to exploit the leadership vacuum left by our father. Sadly in their mind they think they will break us into peaces.

The irony is that what you expressed as our weakness and shame to the family and public, that our father had too many children, is indeed out strength, and corner stone pillar. The more his many children get their children and their children's children, the more a chance for you, none-Valerian Family out there, are weaker in this saga of invading us and our home. Who could think of this before shamelessly dish out these arrogant words that "Valerian is the shame because he had so many children"? God gracious, help the humanity to see your kindness and accept you and your glory.

He did all that for the love of his relatives in the expenses of his wife and children. Many did not take a note of that because they were on the receiving end and benefiting his courage and big heart of love. But let me tell you something, if God was human being, we, Valerian Family, could be in a bad shape. Because, what we see from many, who actually benefited directly from our father, is arrogance that later developed into hatred. The manifested arrogance we see is when they think our family as weaker and forced to succumb to just give away everything; and the shameless sense that they themselves are powerful and in the place of taking whatever belongs to us. What we are trying to say here is that, those who became arrogant and developed such dangerous hatred, are poisoned by their mentality that our father was giving to them because he was weak and them are takes because they are strong. But let us tell you something people, it is actually vise-vase and reverse. Don't confuse his kindness and or our love as weakness.

to be edited and continued. 



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The Moral Of This Blog

When disaster hits, especially when the head of the family, the father and bread winner passes away, many African families go through a point of no return and excruciating pain of not only loosing the loved one, but also the high possibility of family members to become their passive and or active predators. Mostly, young families get the severe end of the outdated African tribal culture and traditions regarding family succession. It is sad but the raw fact of life for people from Africa. You are all welcome to use this blog as an open forum and the platform to discuss issues, possible solutions and alternative of problems that are related to the issues raised by this blog. Life is faith and good faith makes a good life, and vice-versa.

Let this “Blog” be a modern Case-Study that can help the vulnerable (women, widows, children, stigmatized/stereotyped, sick, and disabled) against African society's predictors who prey on the weak and vulnerable. Especially this case study to emphasize on putting a magnifying mirror to the close-by relatives and people with authority, who are trusted to care for and supervise rights of the vulnerable people by just not getting a blank check from the family, community and society at large without a check and balance system.

Too often and too many people have abused the blank-check given to them as overseers of the weak and vulnerable families. They only snatch whatever small is left for these vulnerable families and leave the families to fend for themselves. Society is to push these necessary changes because they are human rights. If Tanzania wants to join the civilized world, it has to assure its people the right to be safe from predators who prey the vulnerable, especially a unique predator like a trusted fellow family member who can be considered a leader and or role model of families. These people need to be vetted and tested first because their acts have got far reaching effects than families, community and society could imagine.

Please, comment, contribute and share your similar stories. Remember, sky is the limit. Have a blessed life. 



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Date: Thu, 17 Apr 2014 09:45:48 -0400

Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family
From: pendocleff@yahoo.com
To: f_masawe@hotmail.com; kilitravel@hotmail.com; kilisafari@yahoo.com
CC:

Auntie Florentina,

F. Y. I. ( For Your Information). Our mother was also offered a land by her parents, our grandparents in Marangu. But Baba Valerian and us, kids, rejected that. Our Father, Valerian, said this to our Marangu grandparents, "we have enough land that God has blessed us with". You see, you are on the wrong side of hostory. 

Certainly, you are not the only woman in the world received Land from your parents. You are not that special than other human beings, fact. If youbare to some, we dont care or beath because of that.  Stay away from us and our home. But, surely you are greedy of land. And there is a patten here that can prove this claim.

God Lord! Be blessed. 

Pendo

CC:

Kiwera and Balthazar Family

Masao clan chairperson

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Original Message from Auntie Flo:

Now friend Pendo dont dare to mention your father who is now dead. Mention your mother who has sent herself as  the best model to teach you steal from me your auntier. I feel sad to have to deal with thieves originally from Mamba Marangu who are supposed to be friends but planted themselves as thieves in Uru of Wakaldayo.

Flo

PS:
Our Father's side family-Uru Relatives have been doing us dirty, using local, Mnini Village, and Uru Mashariki County/Kata as their tools to advance their hidden agenda against us, Valerian Family and specifically our mother. You, if our mother side entire family was from Uru, they could be part of Uru Residence, thus, it could be so difficult for our Uru relatives to use these local public offices for personal vend-era as it has been. Because my mother could have relatives in these government representatives as officials and or stake-holders. she could have schoolmate and associates too. who, together could create the needed balance of unbiased process, contrary to what is taking place right now. What surprises us Valerian Family is how these local government don't use their offices to conduct their businesses but to come use our property, our home, as their gathering place to conduct vendera official business, just to intimidate us. Also, we see and feel that these local governments are way overboard and over-reactive to matters that are private to our home. We would like to open their files and see how many people have faced such bombardment of interference from these local governments. Clearly we are questioning the motives of the officials in these local governments. We have seen them using the "Weekly Community Payer Gatherings" which we are no longer part of as some of us are no longer Catholics, as their organizing venue on how to go about using these local government officials as tools against us, our mother. They went on to deny us water from water from the Mkonyi-Irrigation Canal and local officials refunded us the money we paid for distribution access and maintenance of this public water system. This is clearly discriminatory practice.

Setting The Records Straight With Auntie Florentina Masawe About Our 2008 Visit To Tanzania.

Auntie Florentina, let me help to revive your memory and set the record straight. In 2008 we visited Tanzania because Father Valerian was gravely sick and he urged us to come sooner than later. We arrived in Moshi May 15th 2008. Father Valerian was taken to KCMC hospital the same day, and sadly he did not return home alive. R.I.P. Father Valerian. From Nairobi, Jomo Kenyatta Airport, we came direct to KCMC to see him. There we met you, and you offered us to stay with you at your home in Shanty Town because you said it was closer to KCMC.

The whole thing of finding Father Valerian in the stage he was into it was shocking, Pendo and I and Valerian Family did everything necessary to help Father Valerian, but God had better plans. That is the truth based on our emotions, you cannot rewrite, shape and or spin this. History is the best thing because no one can revisit it and change it, but one try to rewrite it, although it will always stay the same, history. Facts.

Father Valerian passed May 29th 2008 and we left for Uru Home the same day. Then we came back to your Shanty Town home on June 13th midnight and start to park, and we left June 14th {same night} at 6 AM catching a shuttle to Nairobi. Imani dropped us at the Shuttle Bus office that morning. These are the simplest fact that are against your claims. I suggest you start to realign your facts because facts matters, empty words and rumors are just that.

Now, last time I checked, from May 15th to 29th is exactly 14 days. Adding an overnight of, the June 13th late night we came to park and heading out 6 in the morning on the same day we went to bed, June 14th, it can count as 15th day that we spent a night at your Shanty Town House. Also, as you can read in the three of the Valerian Family Documents, you had access and full control of the room we stayed and you exercised such rights very well. Because you had someone else staying in the room while our belongs were in it, during the period of May 29th to June 13th 2008 as we resided at Uru Home. These also are facts.

Dont try to exploit an issue that is well documented by very trusted documents like passports and visas, or events that happened while we visited Tanzania. You cannot manufacture crises in this instance because the odds are not adding up. Manufacturing crises for your personal gain is not a way forward and expect peaceful relationships to come along or to stay a course. 

That does not sound like a month to us, although to you it sounds like You want to spin it and label it as you are mother Theresa or something. Mother Theresa was chosen by the people and did not self-impose herself to the people. Her acts and good deeds made her who she is, so do you. You cannot run from you yourself, stop trying to sugar coating who and what you are based on your acts and comprehensive life.

We can send you our Passports, visas, Father Valerian Death Certificate, and may be all Uru People to attest this to you. Let us know if that's what you want as evidence. We could not possibly invite ourselves to your Shanty Town home and we contributed expenses. I personally told and witness Pendo offering you money as board and room because that's how we do here.

A lot of you did not, and never know that when we were coming, Only Inno and Imani knew. And we did not want to be a burden for anyone. Look how we carry ourselves whenever we are in Tanzania. We keep it to ourselves and not on to others. We dont want celebrity status or make a scene for our coming. We come to retreat and reconnect with the our roots and not to show-off. Dont get twisted about us and our way of life. Even Valerian Family barely knows that we are coming. Does that anger you or anyone? Oh well, get over it, we are who we are and we will not change for anyone but God Himself. That's the difference between us and you, may be.

These are the facts and supported by mounting evidence and real events that you or I or Pendo or anyone for that matter cannot rewrite or spin around or recast. At least to my normal and common sense knowledge. "FACTS". Aunte Floretina, these are not mambo jambo and sniping things always to benefit you. Just plain Facts. Fact matters, and principle driven people cling to the facts.

I suggest to stop offering things to people. Especially, if you are trapping them when they are vulnerable and later to come using the very things that you offered as a weapon against them. That's foul, really bad.

This should never be an issue at all. No one put a gun on your head to present that offer and or the material things that you are talking about. We were at KCMC, my first time to see you and you offered us. Do we have to really talk about this? Seriously? I dont understand what is your motives here. This and the whole thing about you is like a parable to me. Can you spell out, elaborate and explain what exactly do you mean and want from us? I dont do that mischievous, kniving and hit around the bush thing. I cut the chase straight up by keeping it real with it bluntly.

Remember that we keep it real when we have to and we keep it calm when have to as well. Especially when someone else is antagonizing us or deliberately exploiting us, we get down with it accordingly. We dont role like that Auntie Florentina, we real with it. We are nice people when you come nice and we're very defensive when you attack us, it's in human nature. May Go bless you to understand this very well.



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Auntie Florentina Masawe Goes Banana! (WE, VALERIAN FAMILY, LOVE JESUS AND WE ARE PROUD TO SAY IT)

-------- Original message --------
From: "Florentina Masawe"
Date:04/18/2014  12:07 PM  (GMT-05:00)
To: Family Members and Friends

Subject: RE: Fatherhood For'Life mentioned you on Facebook

About hating your mother Felicia she is the first idiot (see notes) who began to teach you to steal
what I got from my mother. Pendo you are too old to be your mother s kid. You dont learn anything and you keep on talking about the same skit. Your mother is as stupid as you, first she accepted that I got Pateni from my father (see notes) and wanted me to give your little bro Inno a room when I bild there now you back to sq. one.

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From: "Mr. Masao"
Date:04/18/2014 12:58 PM
To: "Florentina Masawe",
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

Auntie Florentina Masawe, 

Also you said your parents did give it to you. Then, your Father/Babu gave it to you. To my mother you said Baba gave it to you. To Bro. Protusi you said I, Pendo gave it to you. Now you are saying our mother said Babu gave it to you. Really? Which is which? Tell us or don't waste our time on something you know deep down in your heart that it is not as you are claiming.  

Did our mother said it willingly? Was it willingly? (Note: without any reservation?) Or you manipulated her to sign a peace of document soon after our Father Valerian, died. So now you are planning to kill her so that you can use the document that she agreed the land is yours and Bernadins? Yes we said so. What else? Look at what you have done.  (Bernadin Marselian Masawe has already testified to both Pendo and Imani that "you and your villagers came to our home and coerced our mother by threats, to sign a peace of paper" that she had no idea, but she really did trust and loved you. She did not know as we smelled your evil behaviors. And now you are calling that an evidence of you obtaining the Paten Plot? You must lost your mind.) Tell us your plans. We know all that. How you coerced our mother to sign those stupid documents. The land came to us through our father and not mother. So denying him as your brother, you thought will give you the free land, Pateni Plot. Wrong!!!!!

Most important our, Valerian Family, resolution is you Auntie Florentina Masawe, Bernadin Marselian Masawe and your underground shodows/supporters dont bother us, our home, our properties or our businesses or our lives. You have an issue, go to the courts. Otherwise, nothinh will come out of it. Dont test tge water.

Pendo (on behalf of Valerian Family)

CC:

Kiwera and Balthazar Family

Masao Clan Chairperson

Note: 

In This Good Friday (2014), It is important to learn that there is nothing get done on the dark that cannot come out in the light. In the Western World, we say "There is no such a thing as a perfect crime". Our Lord, Jesus Messiah, died because of the "Truth", so that me and you can be free from captivities of sins and Satan traps. 

God, help us, Valerian Family, in this mess. An educated woman like Auntie Florentina Masawe is turning into primitive lady that did not see cla...ss room all the way to graduate school, partnering with Bernadin and other cousins, and coordinate such invasion to their own blood. Truly, Hate, Jealousy, revenge, greedy and hypocrisy have made them to fail to understand that "he/she said/say" or "a claim" and or "an opinion" by themselves are not facts; and that they need solid evidence to become facts. 

What a messy situation? Only the powers of God Jehovah and Jesus can break this conflict. But, our common sense, is for Auntie Florentina Masawe , Bernadin and their supporters to keep out.

(WE LOVE JESUS AND WE ARE PROUD TO SAY IT)

You called our mother an "idiot". That's what you wish she was. Anyone reading here, and who knows her, see the opposite. Ironically you call people names or say things to people or say people does or claim people did the very things that you are actually doing or did in the past. Here is definition of an "idiot" "An idiot, dolt, or dullard is an intellectually disabled person, or someone who acts in a self-defeating or significantly counterproductive way. Ironically the word moron has also been used. The similar terms moron, imbecile, and cretin have all gained specialized meanings in modern times. An idiot is said to be idiotic, and to suffer from idiocy. A dunce is an idiot who is specifically incapable of learning. An idiot differs from a fool (who is unwise) and an ignoramus (who is uneducated/an ignorant), neither of which refers to someone with low intelligence."  (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiot)

Now, lovely Auntie Florentina Maswe, the self imposed Queen and Celebrity, look at your tracks and our mother's tracks, who is an 'idiot". This is someone who helped to take care of your mother and father, while you were running around in Sweden. May be to you she did idiotic staff, and you got confused that our mother is also an "idiot" because she did not concentrate to her "Nuclear Family" only; in stead she included range of extended family members, some who proven to be nothing but disgrace toward her and never worth her input at all. remember that facts are something you should look into very often before you act. Evaluate your life and look all you have done and where you are, then compare to our mother and your mother, who is an "idiot"? Good gracious, where is common sense? Hate does make people go Banana man. May God bless you.

What A Delusional Auntie You Have Turn In To, Auntie Flirentina Masawe? Shame On You!

-------- Original message --------

From: "Florentina Masawe"

Date:04/18/2014  11:59 AM  (GMT-05:00)

To: Pendo Cleff Masawe 

CC: Family Members and Some of her friends

Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

Pendo you are always writing the same skit. In the future you will not expect a reply from me. I stand on the same principle. When my mother gave Pateni to me my father was already dead. Go and fetch my father for confirmation. Flo.

-------- Original message --------
From: "Mr. Masao"
Date:04/18/2014 12:41 PM
To: "Florentina Masawe,
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family 

Auntie you are not listening at all. We dont have such evidence of you being given our home and its surroundings, Pateni Plot in this case. We know of Bustani Farm with many propmpts when every hatua/meter was added, not Pateni Plot by all means.  You burned us, Valerian Family, and Auntie May Family, from using your Bustani Farm and you threw a feet. You also claimed that Marselian Family stole part of your Bustani Farm. Pateni was never in question. Only when Bibi and all your siblings are dead, you partnered with some of our cousins, i.e. Bernadin and think that you can overpower us. Wrong!.

 Pateni Plot is always ours, not yours or Bernadin's. Stay away from our home, properties, our lives and our businesses.

You said you have evidence of how you and Bibi sat and give each other Pateni Plot. Just a friendly reminder, land is not candy you can just get it or say you got it or go gtab it. Also you waiting until all your parents and siblings are dead to invade our home is outrageous.  If you wanted peace or truly you were given the Pateni Plot, you could have done as you did your Bustani Farm as you did when all were alive.  The facts are not adding up as you claim. And we dont think if you want Pateni Plot. Reference the documents and videos. Note: You Auntie  Florentina Masawe want more than our Pateni Plot, Water Tank, Our House, Our Farm or Our Home. You want our souls by using mice roads, and you cannot get them because only God Jehovah made them and can claim them. Satan steals souls by manipulations and deceptions, and because God gave us free-will, weak people cave in and sell their souls to the devil. Not here Auntie Florentina Masawe.

Also you said your parents did give it to you. Then, your Father/babu gave it to you. To my mother you said Baba gave it to you. To Bro. Protusi you said I, Pendo gave it to you. Which is which? Tell us or don't waste our time on something you know deep down in your heart it is not as you are claiming.  

The energy and effort you used to secure your Bustani Farm, if Pateni Plot was yours, we could see you fusing about how you were given it than anything the earth has ever seen.  We know you way too well. We lived and dealt with you than all other cousins, except in Sweden. We know a lot too. You cannot rewrite history as you are trying, fortunately. 

Stay far away from us, our home, our properties, our businesesses and our lives. Don't bring us your self destruction. We don't owe you anything and you owe us nothing. Whatever we did and or gave to you, it was done with "LOVE". If you can pay us our love to you, take it to God Jehovah as tribute to him. Note: Today, April 18th 2014, is Good Friday. I see that you are happy mocking the Even Of Jesus Crusifiction. But we are rejoicing because that's how we are salvated from people like you Auntie Florentina Masawe

Be blessed.

Pendo (on behalf of Valerian Family)

CC:

Kiwera & Balthazar Family

Masao Clan Chairperson

Note: God Jehovah said that "My people are dying and suffering because they are lacking skills". Now, we have skills and today, Good Friday, our skills and faith in Jesus and Messiah is rejuvenated, rekindled, revamped, empowered and re-energized. Tell that to satan.



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Our Answer: Auntie Florentina With Supproters' Help, Manufacturing Lies and Crises Think She Can Gain More Benefits

-------- Original message --------
From: "Mr. Masao"
Date:04/17/2014 8:40 AM (GMT-05:00)
To: "Florentina B. Masawe" ,Florentina Masawe,
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

Hello Auntie Florentina, 

I paid, I contributed the expenses and I gave you some cash, although you came back and give back to Mama Malaika $60 as gift to Malaika at the last day, but I've already paid you twice. You can't stop manufacturing things. Can't you?

Okay. You can invoice me the bill. Wait a minute! But, only and only when you can pay me and Valerian Family for the decades of our love to you. We dont need all the free services Valerian Family render to you for decades, every time you come to visit Tanzania once a year stayed with us 30+ days for free since 1980's. Let alone, I dont need back my free service s, for almost 3 years, at your Soweto house. I moved on long time. Look and see, ot did not hold me down. I did, and we are moving forward Just saying. 

We understand your hate, jealousy, greedy, hypocrisy and wanting vengency on Valerian Family so bad, have made you and your supporters delusional about how we are at our home and all we inherited from our Father (tell and show us otherwise). Just like our cousins inherited from our beloved Uncles, who also inherited from our Grandparents. Your hate blinds you all, and to you guys it seems our mother and us as just got air lifted from Marangu to Uru Ranch today. Hate is atrocious, it has consumed you.

"Ko wandu kuore shiria" as Bibi used to say. Valerian Family shiria is you Auntie Florentina Masawe, Bernadin Masawe and your supporters to keep out. That's our resolution. You can kill us, why pretend to get along. We live and carry our individual souls, not Florentina's or anyones. 

The rest are non issues here. Unless, you have evidence of any of your malicious claims. May blood of Jesus cleanse you and all up in here. Be blessed.

Pendo. (On behslf of Valerian Famiky)

CC:

Kiwera & Balthazar Family

Masao clan chairperson.

Auntie Florentina With Supproters' Help, Manufacturing Lies and Crises Think She Can Gain More Benefits

 -------- Original message --------
From: "Florentina B. Masawe"
Date:04/17/2014  6:23 AM  (GMT-05:00)
To: Pendo Cleff Masawe,
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

"Cliff you dont have new message as usual in this stupid issue to deliver to concerned people. Your interest is to make people more and more angry on you. At our cost. God will never allow you to succeed. First of all pay me the money for your costs at my house year 2008. I was retired and not employed as you. My own children would not come down here just to eat, enjoy and send stupid messages as you are doing now. Send your stupid messages to your folk in Mamba who are rich. Dont they love your mother Felicia as much as my parents did by giving her plot enough for u. Flo"

Auntie Flo wrote the above text, but i have my doubts. 
Note:  (if you have read most of this blog, you have not see a place my Auntie calls me or any of us "Cliff". I know these are my cousins helping Auntie here. They have been hypocrite and disrespectful to our family, starting with our father before even were born......

The seed of hatred toward us is planted in them before we were born or my father got married. Whomever my father was going to be married, if she did not conform to the forces vested upon her she was gonna get exactly the same. It is one of those family problems that are so gravely secretive and travel the mice road under the surface of the public arena. These cousins wont come to our our home and speak out their problems or any concerns. They put up a phony face but are boiling inside eager to shade blood like thirsty vampires. For what? Do they have unfinished business there? Oh!!! Is It Our Mother Now!!!!!!? Then us. Wow!!!!!!!!? Cant you people speak out. Grow some manners and sense of respect to a fellow human being, Valerian Family, who have been nothing but a helping hand and true brotherhood and sisterhood to you all along. This is not even how one will treat a dog. It is shame that we have to get here for you to understand that you crossed the line and point of no return. Can you say a thing that Valerian Family have done to you????.)


NB: Come out of the wood work people. Dont be ashamed of yourselves. Oh! I forgot, you people are like shadows because of what you do, what you believe and what you are trying/aspire to become. Good, we will put bright lights on your mice roads. 

Our Answer: Auntie Florentina Masawe Thinks She Can Intimidate Us While She's Insulting Our Parents

-------- Original message --------
From: Valerian Family
Date:04/18/2014  2014 10:14 AM
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family
Hello Auntie Florentina Masawe, 

I'm glad that you took the first step, admitting that Gradpa Balthazar Kiwera Masao was an evangelist who spread Christianity in the area, and gave a place that is healing souls, the The Mamboleo church. This is Babu's legacy. Although you still didn't and haven't clarified how Valerian was never your brother, we have our rights from God and not from you or anyone. And you cant tell us what to say and or do or not to say/do about our parents. You are not god Florentina.

What about your legacy? Divider and Quarrelsome In Chief? Can't you learn a bit of his examples? He taught us all better. You can practice his teaching, then talk of his Evangelist Legacy. Hate, greedy, jealousy and vengeance were never his things. We know that.

This was very simple conflict to handle. But you wanted everyone to believe and follow your polarized mind set and mentalities of invading and ousting Valerian Family.  Mark these words "IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN" because "THIS TIME IS DIFFERENT". Now we are here because of you. Would Babu or Bibi or your siblings get us here? Did they got us here? You know well the answer is, big "No". That's why you waited untill all are dead to start your vandara. It is you, enjoying this hate saga.

Yes, we refused to be like you Auntie Florentina Masawe or go the direction you Auntie and cousin  Bernadin Marselian Masawe' way of hate, jealousy, revenge, greedy or hypocrisy. 

Our resolution is for you people hating us to keep out of our home, businesses, issues and lives. Then there will be no problem, common sense peolle!!!!!. We need boundaries. Or we will be forced to face those who are hard-hearded, to enforce this resolution.

You guys are working really hard to pull us in that route.  But, we see a dead - end ahead. Therefore, we have used an emergency brake before we end up falling off the clif. Thanks Babu evangelisim seeds because a small like a sabd grain can indeed move a mountain. Keep out!!!!! May God bless you all.

Pendo ( on behalf of Valerian Family)

CC:

Kiwera and Balthazar Family

Masao Clan Chairperson

Auntie Florentina Masawe Thinks She Can Intimidate Us While She's Insulting Our Parents

-------- Original message --------
From: "Florentina B. Masawe"
Date:04/18/2014  6:12 AM  (GMT-05:00)
To: Pendo Cleff Masawe,
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family
RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

Now friend Pendo dont dare to mention your father who is now dead. Mention your mother who has sent herself as  the best model to teach you steal from me your auntier.

I feel sad to have to deal with thieves originally from Mamba Marangu who are supposed to be friends but planted themselves as thieves in Uru of Wakaldayo.

Note: To them is a joke. Because she is driven by hate, jealousy, hypocrisy and eager to harm us, Valerian Family. They got this far and are getting delusional. They have lost touch with reality. 

Where is your evidence of what you say you owe??????????? 

You said you have evidence?

Answer To Auntie Florentina When Insulting Our Mother & Think She Is The Only Woman To Inherit Land

Date: Thu, 17 Apr 2014 09:45:48 -0400
Subject: RE: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family
From: Pendo Masao
To: "Florentina Masawe"
CC: Kiwera & Balthazar Family

Auntie Florentina,

F. Y. I. ( For Your Information). Our mother was also offered a land by her parents, our grandparents in Marangu. But Baba Valerian and us, kids, rejected that. Our Father, Valerian, said this to our Marangu grandparents, "we have enough land that God has blessed us with". You see, you are on the wrong side of hostory. 

Certainly, you are not the only woman in the world received Land from your parents. You are not that special than other human beings, fact. If youbare to some, we dont care or beath because of that.  Stay away from us and our home. But, surely you are greedy of land. And there is a patten here that can prove this claim.

God Lord! Be blessed. 

Auntie Florentina & Bernadin Masawe, Reconciliation Is You To Stop Interfering & Invading Valerian Family & Our Home Affairs. Stay At Your Homes

 -------- Original message --------

From: "Pendo Masao"
Date: 04/13/2014, 2014 3:44 PM
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Kiwera and Balthazar Family
Subject: Auntie Florentina Invading Valerian Family

Hello Auntie Florentina Masawe and Bernadin Masawe, we will stop your mice roads and invasion to our home and disturbing our mother. We know you want the clan, Kiwera and Balthazar Family to say Pateni Plot is yours, because you know that the so called documents you said you have got are vague and baseless.  We were not born yesterday. Be our guests!!!

You cannot possibly give away what does not belong to you. The fact is we, Valerian Family, own and used the Pateni Plot given by Babu, Bibi and Uncle Kris. The Auntie from Mwasi you are trying to coerce, is another sad story. Was she there? Can she prove? And why she did not raise these issues in Babu, Bibi, Uncle Kris, Baba, and all your Siblings Matanga/Family meetings after their Funerals???????? Fair and just questions.

Remember, you or anyone cannot undo Babu, Bibi, Uncle Kris, and all your sibling's last Wills. To do so it is destruction like the Bible Babbel Tower outcomes. Your claims of owning it were never raised then and now are just baseless. You cannot run away from issues raised in our previous documents. They are the foundation of resolving this conflict.

We dont need you or anyone at our Home for any meetings with our Mother. We, Valerian Sons, are to go to, and I chair the Valerian Family. We need to be in all meetings and we need official notice and ample time for all considerations. 

You dont get to dictate what ample time is, but all the involved parties. Or go to the Courts. Stop mice roads. Otherwise, everything you discussed or agreed in our absence is null and void.

You can Do meeting at your Bustani Farm ot Shanty Town or in any other public places. Our home is a private place and we need no disturbance from you and or your vindictive supporters. Get that straight and we mean what we say.

Marselian Family were never and will never get denied a drive way/kichumi as you try to manufacture a crisis. Shame to you and shame to you and shame to you Auntie Florentina. So, we cannot discuss something that is not there. We have not heard any claim of this crisis you are trying to manufucture.

We dont share border and or driveway with Bernadin. You do, thru your Bustani Farm. So if it is Bernadin's driveway/kichumi, you guys can have your own meetings. We, valerian Family, have no interest in such issues.

The Pact between you and Bernadin is smelling fishy and surely very destructive. But, those are your choices, we too have ours. In the mean time, we will be waiting for your so called Bernadin's daughter and Bernadin to come at Pateni Plot that you dont and never owned. Or the courts summons. Or the family meeting's time and venue negotiations that's to be held at public owned Ball Room/Board room, TRUCE. We call that "when the rubber hit the ground".

We are repeating, dont step a foot at our home. Also, your supporters are not allowed at our home. Period. What else do you people want from us???? It is not secret. Actually,  it is better we do everything out in the public. We need some bright lights on your mice roads that you are traveling. 

Sadly, these are repetitions. We said them many times. But you are not listening.  We will keep on reminding you over and over again. God Bless you all.

Regards, 

Pendo, on behalf of Valerian Family.

CC:

Kiwera and Balthazar Family.

Disturbing Pattern Of Auntie Florentina And Bernadin Agenda Invasion To Valerian Family Home

 Disturbing Pattern Of Auntie Florentina And Bernadin  Agenda Invasion To Valerian Family Home. Real people, retail talking. Go all the way to the bottom. Copy and paste in the Google translator if you can.
 
-------- Original message --------
From: "Florentina B. Masawe"
Date:04/11/2014 10:49 AM (GMT-05:00)
To: Valerian Family
CC: John Balthazar Family
Subject: To Inno and Valerian Family

Hi Inno,

Inno wewe nilikuamini  kati ya watoto wote wa Valerian ndo maana hata
maandishi kadhaa nilituma kupitia wewe.

Maandishi ya kwanza nilipata majibu ya uchungu kutota kwa kakao
Pendo. Eti mimi sikuwa na sehemu ya kumpokea mtoto wa Bernadin Marselian.
Sasa uchungu zaidi mpaka mke wa Pendo kuniita Shetani etc na kumtumia mke
wa Protus katika biashara ya kumshukuru mama ambaye hata siku moja
hajamtukana, wewe ungelijisikiaje? Ndo asante yake na Mmewe kwa kukaa
kwangu mwezi mmoja  May 2008. Kwanza kitendo cha kumtumia mama Pendo gari
na kumwonyesha mjukuu ilionyesha wazi walikuja kuzika baba Valerian. Kwa nini
hakuchagua mmoja kati yenu kuchukua movi ile yenu ya kishetani tarehe 21/12, 2014?

Ni wazi steps zenu ni kunitakia kifo cha haraka. Wale wote waliohusika katika
Maandishi yenu katika internet kwa kisa cha kuninyanyasa hata mmoja
asihuthurie mazishi yangu. Mimi ni fedheha kwenu ya nini wahuthurie? Ninakubali
mmenifethehesha sana mpaka mkawatenga watoto wangu na mimi. Nini ni nani au
mimi ni nani kwenu?

Pendo alikuwa na bahati kwani engelibaki mpaka baada ya Kristimas Polis wangelimnyakua.
Unafikiria hakujua alichokifanya? Uwongo wote huo wa kupeleka Uropo mlipata wapi.

Ni kweli mmetajirika. Kwani niliwatakieni msitajirike? Kampenyi yenu ni ya nini? Wewe Pale
TRA siunahesabu pesa tu? Zote tutaziacha hapa duniani ndugu Inno.

Kaa salama kutoka kwa mtoto wa mama Bertha na Baba Balthazar. Ajabu urithi wao walionipa
unawakera wajukuu wao watoto wa Valerian. Bernadin ni Mlinzi wangu wa Pateni na Bustani.
Atakaeingilia ajiju. Wanaotaka kupatana bado niko. Kwa masharti yangu makali sana. Sina upuuzi
na anayetaka kunifedhehesha hapa duniani. Mmenifethehesha ya kutosha. Sikuumbwa niwe
msaada wenu wala mchezo weno. Ni lini mlinisaidia kuwatunza mama na baba yangu?

Sipokei msamaha wa kishenzi? Flo


----- Reply message -----
From: "Mr. Masao" Valerian Family
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Valerian and John Balthazar Family
Subject: To Inno and Valerian Family
Date: Fri, Apr 11, 2014 19:29


Hi Auntie,

We dont like your acts and manufactiring crises for your benefits in our expenses. Protusi's wife??? Are you kidding? Bring evidence of your claims.

Pateni never was yours and is not yours. Again, bring evidence or go to courts. You cannot give what is not yours.

It is like me saying . I, Pendo, do decide to give Shanty Town house to Mapuruke. Can it be legal? If it can then this order stands. If it cannot, then Paten Plot canmot and will not ever be yours or Bernadins through you.  Get that straight.

The rest you said are just Mambo Jambo. We are praying for you. Stay blessed.

PENDO

-------- Original message --------
From: Imani Masao
Date:04/11/2014 5:23 PM (GMT-05:00)
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Valerian Family
Subject: Re: To Inno and Valerian Family


Hi aunt,
Refer your émail dated april 11.
Inashangaza sana e mail yako aunt.
 1st,futa usemi wako kua hakuna aliemtunza babu Baltazari na bibi Berta.
Hakuna familia iliomtunza Babu n'a bibi kamafamilia ya Valerian ukijumuisha dada Makida.hata ukiuliza ukoo wanalijua hilo.simaanishi wengine hawakufanya hivyo.Ila matunzo mama yalitoka kwa familia ya valerian hususan mama Pendo.ukitaka prove tutakupatia.kama kunawakukanusha ajitokeze.
    2nd,...

Imani

-------- Original message --------
From: "Pendo Masao"
Date: 04/12/2014 3:26 AM (GMT+03:00)
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Kiwera and Balthazar Family
Subject: Re: To Inno and Valerian Family

Auntie,

Pole kwa unavyojisikia na kwa yote, nasi twajisikia vibaya sana kwa unayoyafanya, sio ubinadamu. You started with Pateni Plot, Water Tank, Two Rooms and all together that is not our home and Valeroan is not your bro. 

We are so depressed from your actions. We warned you that invasion to our home is a serious matter and you should stop and seek resolution by bringing evidence. Inno is only one of many of Valerian Family. You cannot be cherry picking us. That time has passed. How can you possibly say you love inno but you talk all these things about his parents and siblings? Do you think you brain washed him or something? You are the divider in chief for doing that. Is Baba and Mama not his parents? How dare you use someone's son to torment the parents and siblings?  Tabia zako na unavohandle swala zima, Inasikitisha sana na sana.

Pateni is not yours and never was yours and not one of your supporters can claim that. It is an order and not request. Bring evidence of your claims. You never owned Pateni, fact. Or go to courts for further proceedings. 

You cannot possibly say we, Valerian Family, did not take care of Bibi Manyaki, fact. You were in Sweden all along.  Was she living in sweden with you? Then who were she living with? Did she ever complain to you or anyone about us and her residence? What did you do about it as loving daughter? Why you waited until all bibi, babu and your siblings are dead to do this? Your motive for all this is a sad story, and you have not helped the situatolion and play your Antie role.  To you it may be a game, but we are very serious. All facts.

We're warning everyone, you had Bibi, your mom, for 100+ years and solemnly living with us at our home as her permanent home. We never caused or tried to cause harm to anyone or anyone's mom, facts. You cannot and dont try to deny righ to have our mother because nothong good will come out of such attempt. Anyone who trys to cause harm to us or our mother, we will not rest until closure and truth is revealed and get justice. Justice is our right and may God help us in this endeavor. AMEN!

I dont know if you need some evaluation! But, let it be known, I dont know who is Protusi's wife, and I never met her. I can pass her without knowing, fact. You are looking for something because you feed on crises. I only seen protusi nillison twice or three times in my life, fact. 

My wife using Protusi's wife pictures???? You must be kidding. Produce evidence and not he/she say, fact. You tend to manufacture crises and want to benefit from them. We are saying that "THIS TIME IS DIFFERENT". 

We all have our opinions, but opinions are not facts. Yes, it is fact that we are publishing your invasion.  It was never a secret, we told you so. And we are working on getting this hate saga to the big screen as we said. You see, we mean what we say. No mice roads from us. Plain truth!

About my father! How many times we asked you about the crook guy you said he wanted to kill him over Shanty Town vihamba? And the Zakayo Pastor, who used to bring tea at his death bed at KCMC? Can't you say something about it? Facts, legitimate questions. You are rambling all over on everything, intentionally trying to distruct us from key issues.

You tend to say onto others what you exactly do. You must be confused that everyone does and think as you do and or think. No, we are individuals and unique from one another, and with free will/utashi, facts. You may not like my strategy, but that's the only way justice can come to us. No more secrets and underground mice roads. Let's be individual, God's will on to all.

We said go to the court and show them evidence of your claims. If you had such genuine evidence we would not be going through this. We make no secrets of how we feel. You invading our home as an adult in the family, does not help the situation. You could resolve this matter in once second. You are enjoying the moment. But the truth is known, you are an intruder and no longer welcome at our home.

Yes, we all gonna die, fact. If we are gonna leave this earth with nothing, of which it is true, why creating such chaos from your jealousy, greedy and hatred to the people you claim you love? Fact. But, we cannot let you take what is not yours because of the fact that we all going to die some day!!!!!!!!!. You miscalculated your strategy. 

Pateni and our home belongs to Valerian Family and that's final. You have a mission to make us bad and leave us with commotions. We said no. We stand on the principle. We will not let your self destruction pealing off onto us. You are not happy we are and we can be at our home.  If you are, act like one.

The rest you said proves your hate, jealousy and vengence you feel toward us, and are just mambo jambo and have no room here. It is serious and we need you to give this issues the deserving seriousness. Otherwise, we will go on like this until the end of the time. 

We dont like your actions toward us, they led us to here. Pendo or Valerian Family did not come to invade anyone, or making rules to anyone's home or call anyone names, or make up stuff for anyone, or act hypocrite while invading anyone's home, or come make borders with the villagers without all involve parties present, or steal and manipulate anyone's mom and house girls so that she can be alone in the house, or go to Kidawio look at Kiwera's grave site without notify Kidawio Family, or said to anyone that they wanted/kill their father (read your above email carefylly as it sugests), or deny anyone's father not to be true son or daughter of Balthazar and Bibi Manyaki, or claim anything atrocious about anyone in Balthazar Family or poison by overdosing anyone's baby, or cut off power to Bibi or break lights on anyone house or try to sit in the meeting dividing any of my cousin's home without their awareness, or hosting vindictive meetings over any of my cousins' home/family? Facts.

Auntie Florentina and Bernadin, sadly you did all the above, facts. You are focusing on Pendo as bad one, you have to prove more than just saying it, fact. Say is your opinion, opinions, everyone has opinions, but facts matters.

You are not uniting us as Balthazar Family. You are separating us one by one. Bibi did not do that, facts. We dont want you or Bernadin in our home because of your hidden agendas that have threatened our life and right to exist. 

We have to break the code of silence. For a good 39 years now, we worked diligently and established our home without interfering others and all you, Auntie Florentina, Bernadin and your Suporters have done nothing but to manufucture crisis and questioning our legitimacy at our home just now after Babu, Bibi and all of your siblings are dead (FACT). There is no need to get your approval about our home, fact. We are just keeping our peace at our home and you and your supporters can keep your self destruction in your own home. Be blessed. 

Pendo on Behalf of Valerian Family. 

CC: Kiwera and Balthazar Family

-------- Original message --------

From: "Inno Masao"
Date: 04/12/2014 2014 3:33 AM
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"

CC: Kiwera and Balthazar Family
Subject: Re: To Inno and Valerian Family

Hello aunt.

Binafsi nasikitika sana kusoma email yako kwa namna ulivyojaribu kuelezea issue  ambazo sio za msingi, ila core issues which will lead to the solution you are trying to escape and say nothing about them. Can you please try to tell how does the car bought back in 2008 for our baba and mana before our loved baba passed away and assosiate relate to the issues at hand. By the way, is it bad to buy your parents anything you wish? or did we have to ask permission from you to buy the car, and if our mama would remain and use it how does it affect you or anyone, this proves you hate our mama sooo much and you dont to see her happy. And also how does being rich or poor relate to the issue at hand, whatever we have small or big is by the Grace of the LIVING GOD, nothing else. You also said we am making your children to hate you, can anyone in the world kill the love of a child to a mother in any way if not from themselves, please tell how did we do that, I have met Patrik once in my lifetime and Protus twice, how in the world can  we break the relationship between you in those occasions we met???

Yes, you told me about giving the bustani land to Bernadin's daughter and me to announce it in her wedding day which I did as per you wish/will, NO ONE HAS EVER QUESTIONED YOU ON THAT BECAUSE THE WHOLE MASAO CLAN AND WHOLE WORLD KNOWS THAT IT IS YOURS AND NO ONE IN OUR FAMILY HAS ANY INTEREST IN THE MENTIONED LAND GIVEN TO HER.

And just to add up, I believe in being  just and fair to myself and everyone I associate with, even my siblings knows that and I will always stand on that, and you know that as well and that is why I am the way I am and you used to put trust in me. I tell the truth when needs to be told. Please tell where and how I have offended you in any way. I think you always used to see us as small kids and forget the fact that we are now grown ups and see things in a wider perspectives and you did not expect challenges from us.

As you have mentioned, in this world we are just passing, I may go before you and also you may go before me, who knows, only the LIVING GOD knows. To say dont come to my funeral and so and so will not help a thing, I SUGGEST AS YOU HAVE SUGGESTED IF YOU ARE WILLING WE HAVE TO COME TO A RECONCILIATION TABLE AND SORT OUT OUR DIFFERENCES AND REMAIN IN PEACE AND HARMONY. Me and everyone would love that sooner than latter. But it has to come from  deep down in our heart.

May be one in the email list can suggest any way to a reconciliation.

Peace and Love
Inno

-------- Original message --------
From: "Pendo Masao"
Date: 04/12/2014 2014 8:44 AM
To: "Florentina B. Masawe"
CC: Kiwera and Balthazar Family
Subject: Re: To Inno and Valerian Family

Hi Auntie,

Reconciliation is you stay at our homes without interference with one another. We need physical, spiritual and psychological  boundaries. We need to be left alone.

Everyone can stay in his/her home, with freedom. This will help the healing process and bring about the respect among one another that is so needed.

We are here because of decades of lack of boundaries that lead onto disregard of respect among ourselves, then invasion. Not anymore, no and no. Everyone into his/her home. What do they want at our home that they cannot get in Shanty Town or Bustani Farm? Coming to harassing our mother and us again? We did not harass your mothers, we will not let you do that. It is not far and or just. No and no and no again. Stay at your homes.

We have been doing this hypocritical getting along since when we were born, over 35 years as I can remember. Nothing good came out of all these fast pushed and agenda driven get along reconciliations, that are hypnotical in nature.

Auntie Florentina, Bernadin and their supporters, did indeed know they were going too far with their agendas. They never said or retreated from pushing us thru. They should not be pushed to agree that they went far.

They can take thier excuses and justifications of their action to God. We are not God, we take our to God. We have forgiven them, but we are not forgetting. We have moved on. To forgive is not to forget and dont confuse the two.

It is simple, they are our enemies and we accept that philosophical difference with two hands. We are individuals and not just bunch of colective breathing animals. We have 6 senses God gave to us. We are using them wisely. Not at our home anymore. We can select and chose who we want at our hom,  just like the rest do. A home is not buildings or land, is made by those who are in it and guests that are welcome in it. Comon sense will prevail.

To do same thing over and over and somehow to expect different results is insanity.  We are not insane, we are thinking human being and we need permanent solution or this problem. Camp David Acord style of solution. Those who are aware of peace making and resolution, folliw me here. We said and we are saying again,"This Time Is Different". Take a note.

We are praying gorvyou, everyone and the situon. We live life for God and not for any one else. We carry our souls, not Florentinas or anyone. We prays God Jehova! Amen! Hallelujah!

Pendo (On behalf of Valerian Family)

CC:
Kiwera Family
Balthazar Family
Chairperson of Kiwera Family ( give a copy for me please)